General Results of Cheating Survey    
         
         
Can This Be Cheating? Y N U   Do Cheaters Worry About Y N U  
Cybersex 45% 42% 12%   Stds       28% 59% 13%  
Phone Sex 58% 32% 10%   Hurting Their Lovers  41% 47% 12%  
Answering Ad 66% 22% 12%   Fatal Attractions 27% 62% 11%  
Dinner 37% 48% 15%   About Getting Caught 70% 23% 7%  
           
           
Have You Ever Y N U   Which Is Worse, your partner: %      
Got into a relationship for sex  36% 56% 7%   having a one night stand 8%    
pursued someone in a relationship 49% 43% 8%   having a cyberlover 4%    
cheated 55% 36% 9%   vacation with another woman 12%    
been cheated on 70% 13% 17%   has another lover across town 64%    
been the other woman 44% 41% 15%   Unsure 12%    
         
         
Main Reason People Cheat %       You found out your lover is cheating, you %      
to start a new relationship before ending the old 4%     break up immediately 46%    
feels emotional neglected 36%     insist on therapy or counseling 13%    
force her lover to break up with her 1%     get revenge by having an affair of your own 8%    
fear of commitment 23%     make sure everyone knows she is a dog 5%    
must screw everyone she is attracted to 19%     unsure 27%    
unsure 10%            
dull sex life 7%            
               
               
Woman you are interested in has a reputation for cheating %     If you were going to cheat, would it be with %      
date, but resolve not to get too serious 23%     a co-worker 5%      
date, but monitor her every move 4%     a friend of yours 40%      
decide not to date her 39%     a friend of hers 3%      
date her without any reservations 7%     a mutual friend 7%      
no dates, just become her f*ck buddy 19%     someone you met at a bar 16%      
unsure 8%     one of her relatives 2%      
        unsure 27%      
         
         
It is MOST important that the other woman %     The other woman is falling in love with you, you: %      
knows she's a snack and not the main dish 23%     end the affair 60%    
doesn't know that you are in a relationship 7%     continue seeing her 12%    
wants sex only 25%     start borrowing money 4%    
keeps her mouth shut 28%     dump your girlfriend for her 2%    
unsure 17%     unsure 22%    
         
         
Your lover asks if you have feelings for another, you: %     Her Friend or Relative Makes A Pass %      
tell the truth 56%     turn down, trap 14%      
accuse her of wanting someone else 2%     turn down and tell 41%      
lie 23%     turn down, don't tell 33%      
change the subject 6%     have one night stand 2%      
unsure 13%     have affair 1%      
        unsure 9%      
               
Mary Cheated On Joyce 2 Years Ago, She Should %       Willa finds out she is actually one of 3 %      
Tell Joyce 43%     she should leave 84%      
Say Nothing 46%     she should fight 4%      
Unsure 11%     she should have an affair 1%      
        not sure 11%      
         
         
Not single, you feel yourself getting too intimate with a friend %       Not single, you feel yourself getting too intimate with a friend %      
distance yourself from her 25%     tell her about your feelings 15%      
figure out why it's happening 35%     tell your lover 9%      
redirect them to your lover 18%     tell another friend 38%      
see where they lead 12%     don't tell anyone 24%      
unsure 10%     unsure 14%      
         
         
   
   

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