Let's Talk Angela R. Harvey Can a relationship be too good to be true? My girl and me have been together (and happy) for a year and that’s starting to bother me. I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. Sometimes I get her angry – just to see if anything slips out. It doesn’t and then I feel bad for pissing her off. I’m okay for a while, and then I start wondering if it’s too good again. I know a thousand women who would love to have your problem. I’m not going to dig too deeply into this because I’m going to assume you are speaking the truth. It is very pleasantly odd that the shoe hasn’t dropped but that could be because you both have them on. This could simply mean that you all did things the right way. You were/are honest. You freely gave/give of your trust. You effectively communicated/communicate your true thoughts, feelings and beliefs even if they weren’t/aren’t pleasant. You were/are both open and ready to love and be loved. You were/are able to compromise. You were/are both able to accept one another for who they are and still be in love. I say to you CONGRATULATIONS AND GOOD LUCK! Let's Talk - Personal Growth Retreat Go Back