Share

Reviewed by D. Alexandria

When your mama taught you to share your toys, she most certainly was not thinking of this one…yet the lesson still rings satisfactorily true. Let me introduce my new best friend, the double dildo who has pretty much closed the door on my harness, leaving it sadly alone in the back of my Toy Drawer.

Before Share, I had seen a few strapless “strap-on” dildoes, and pretty much ignored them. I’ve only started strapping within the past couple years, and my harness had become a necessary evil to me. Despite rings eventually needing replacing, and having to deal with the routine of navigating cumbersome strips of leather, buckles and snaps – without, of course, losing the heat (and let’s be honest, sometimes strapping ahead of time can appear “too eager” to your partner), I was pretty much enjoying strapping with the status quo equipment. Like anyone who’s strapped, you resign to what’s available, and considering how “active” I can be during peak moments, those cumbersome strips of leather were there for a reason – keeping my dick in place – well, somewhat.

Enter Share-ing.

I’ll admit, I did laugh when I first held it in my hand. Besides the sweet-to-the-touch skin, I couldn’t see how a toy that looked like something I’d expect to see at a Sci-Fi convention could replace my aggression-inducing equipment (something about leather just makes me feel tough). And, I’ll be honest in admitting, I felt it would be “too much” work to use while enjoying sex.

All I can say is, MY BAD.

Strangely enough, I felt naked with it on – um, in. The bulbous end was comfortable to have inside, but then I was left with just a “dick” protruding from my body and no strips of leather against my skin. You’d think I’d scream initial freedom, but after a while, those strips do grow on you. Now, of course, initially it did take some work. Your kegel muscles immediately go into action, making sure to keep your end secure, and I had initially worried that would become annoying after a while. But let me tell you, once you are doing your “thang”, and you notice how she’s responding, it only heightens the pleasure, and you stop consciously thinking of holding it and just do. I’m a person who enjoys working my kegel muscles often, and this was a new way to so with added pleasure. And that initial “naked” feeling only led to a newfound intimate sensation, as we felt somewhat “closer” and could enjoy sex as we couldn’t before. And my much-loved aggression? It was still there, now fueled by my bond with what now truly feels like “my dick”.

Now admittedly, I think it worked a bit better while I was on my back with my partner on top, only because I got to relax a little more and her efforts made the little bump in the center of the toy press against my clit which brought me to an amazing orgasm. I need more clitoral stimulation to get off, but I can see down the line, with more practice, this not-so-little wonder could possibly do the same without either of us needing to touch my clit.

And as suggested by Babeland, I did have a solo session with it, and I’ve now grown addicted to using it not only for self-loving moments, but also another way to workout those much-needed muscles – if you can get off while “jacking”, try it, believe me.

So do I recommend “sharing” this toy? Only if you want to hear the following from your girl in a genuine screams: YES! YES! YES!

D. Alexandria (d-alexandria.com), a Jamaican descendant, unapologetically wallows in perversion while residing in the Boston area. Published in the Best Lesbian Erotica series, Ultimate Lesbian Erotica 2006, and under the pseudonym Glitter in GBF Magazine and Kuma2.net, she is currently penning her first collection of black lesbian erotica.
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